| you can't oustource your high dream |
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| Written by Chris Venn |
| Wednesday, 29 April 2009 03:26 |
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In Relationship Systems Coaching there is a term called High Dream. Quite simply it means the best case scenario; what would be the most perfect outcome. And day in and day out, people have these incredible pictures of their future, even the short term future of what’s going to happen in the next few minutes, or next few seconds. The High Dream is our ideal picture of what that will be.Along with the High Dream comes the Low Dream - the absolutely worst version of the story where everything goes wrong and we get the exact opposite of what we’d desired. As someone who works with all kinds of business leaders, I’ve heard about a lot of High Dreams. When people start businesses, start new jobs, start new relationships, or just restart themselves, they invariably have this picture of what it might look like. In my own life I have all kinds of High Dreams and I’ll bet that you do too. Here’s the deal about High Dreams though - they’re yours. No one else has a High Dream that’s identical to yours; they might be really close, but not identical. And what that means is that no one is going to give you your High Dream, you have to create it. Going further, you can’t hire people to create your High Dream either, otherwise it loses the emotional qualities that make it your High Dream. It’s true, you can’t outsource your High Dream. So what has to happen? If it’s really your High Dream, your best goal, your best case scenario then it’s solely up to you to create it. I see business owners all the time who want to create big changes in their businesses and they want someone else to do it - an employee, a contractor, a coach, something like that.And there’s a reason they are rarely happy - the reason is, you can’t outsource your high dream. Share your dreams and know that you alone are responsible for them. Be outstanding - Chris Venn |
| Last Updated on Thursday, 11 June 2009 14:28 |
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